Don't worry about the sex. We are guys, and as a general rule, we’re always ready, but sex isn’t what keeps a guy around. While it helps, ultimately, there are other things that draw people together. Just look at the numerous committed open relationships in which the partners would never leave their mate. So what’s it take to keep that guy around?
10. Be a tower of confidence. He’s with you because he thinks you are hot and he’s attracted to you. Don’t compare yourself to his ex or the other hot guy in the room. Yes, there are always other hot men but there is only one you. Remember that he chooses to be with you and vice versa. A University of Illinois at Urbana study conducted by Amanda M. Vicary and R. Chirs Fraley concluded, “insecure individuals respond to events in their romantic relationships in ways that sometimes can be destructive.” You may not realize it, but your own insecure thoughts and behaviors could ruin your own rela- tionship. Look within before reacting.
9. Get along with his friends. No one wants to date someone that hates his friends. It’s just tiresome. He’s probably known his bestie much lon- ger than you, and probably hooked up with him in high school or college. Don’t let that faze you. There’s a reason they aren’t together today. Let all of the BS go and have fun with the group. Go out and let loose. Don’t sit in the corner.
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